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Freda Heights's avatar

Stefni, your words resonate deeply - especially for those of us who've navigated countless landscapes searching for ourselves only to realize we were always right here, waiting. It's extraordinary how bravery can look like standing still after years of motion, how courage can mean surrender after a lifetime of defiant independence.

Solo adventures teach resilience, but true vulnerability is another mountain entirely. The shift you've described - from the hunger for external exploration to confronting the unexplored terrain within - is perhaps the most profound journey. I've learned, often stubbornly, that the walls we build protect us until they imprison us. Your image of walls crumbling echoes the beauty of finally feeling the sunlight on a heart that’s long been guarded.

You captured a universal ache: the longing for connection without sacrificing autonomy. We who thrive in solitude eventually understand that the bravest adventures sometimes happen within our own hearts. There's no map for this terrain, only trust, surrender, and patience. You’ve given voice to a feeling so many carry silently.

Here's to stepping into that uncomfortable unknown gently, bravely, and with hope.

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Magru Muller's avatar

Your heart will know when you know...xxx

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